“Man is not worried by real problems so much as by his imagined anxieties about real problems.”
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes that our anxieties are often worse than the real problems. We imagine catastrophic scenarios that paralyze us, while reality is often more manageable. Epictetus invites us to distinguish facts from our mental projections. By focusing on what is real, we can face challenges with more clarity and calm.
How to apply it daily
When anxiety rises, write the real problem in one sentence, then list the imagined scenarios. Focus on the former.
Reading guide
Which book should you read to discover Epictetus?
Our starting point
A short, practical first approach
Enchiridion
In a few pages, it sets out the central distinction between what depends on us and what does not.
- Level
- Accessible
- Reading time
- 1–2 hours
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