“The greatest happiness of life it the conviction that we are loved, loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.”
What this quote means
This quote by Victor Hugo touches on the fundamental need to be loved unconditionally. The greatest happiness is not being loved for our qualities, but being loved despite our flaws, weaknesses, and dark moments. It resonates because we often fear that love is conditional. It applies in intimate relationships, where total acceptance is rare and precious, and reminds us that true love sees beyond appearances.
How to apply it daily
Express gratitude to someone who loves you despite your imperfections. Tell them how much their unconditional love means to you.
Reading guide
Which book should you read to discover Victor Hugo?
Our starting point
Discovering Hugo's full epic and humanist range
Les Misérables
His great novel brings together the questions of justice, poverty, forgiveness, and commitment that run through his work.
- Level
- Intermediate
- Reading time
- 25–35 hours
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- Print · Ebook · Audio
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