“We are all the heroes of our own story, but we are also the villains of someone else's.”
What this quote means
Joël Dicker reminds us that our self-perception is often biased. In our own narrative, we see ourselves as the hero, justifying our actions and choices. However, from others' perspectives, we may be seen as the villain, the one who causes harm or obstacles. This duality is inherent to the human condition. It invites us to empathy and humility, recognizing that our story is just one among many, and that we are not always the positive protagonist.
How to apply it daily
Reflect on a conflict situation and try to see things from the other person's point of view. Note how this changes your understanding.
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