“I want to be a woman, but I don't want to be a woman. I want to be a woman, but I don't want to be a woman. I want to be a woman, but I don't want to be a woman.”
What this quote means
This quote, through its repetition, expresses the complexity and ambivalence of a trans identity. It reflects an inner conflict between the desire to be a woman and the difficulty of fully embracing that identity. It's a poignant illustration of the internal struggles that trans people may face, caught between aspiration and fear of others' gaze. It reminds us that identity is not linear and that everyone needs time and support to find themselves.
How to apply it daily
If you know a trans person, show your support without judgment, by listening and respecting their pace.
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