“He that has done you a kindness will be more ready to do you another, than he whom you yourself have obliged.”
What this quote means
Benjamin Franklin observes a peculiarity of human nature: the one who has already been kind to you is more likely to be kind again than the one you have obliged. This is explained by the need for internal consistency and attachment to self-image. By helping someone, we emotionally commit to them. This quote invites us to reflect on the dynamics of relationships and the importance of allowing others to be generous towards us.
How to apply it daily
When you need help, naturally turn to those who have already helped you, and do not be afraid to ask, as it strengthens the bond.
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