“What makes us like new acquaintances is not so much any weariness of our old ones, or the pleasure of change, as disgust at not being sufficiently admired by those who know us too well, and the hope of being more so by those who do not know so much of us.”
What this quote means
This quote explores the hidden motivations behind our attraction to new acquaintances. It suggests it's not so much boredom or love of change, but rather the desire to be admired, which our close ones no longer satisfy because they know us too well. New people, unaware of our flaws, offer a chance to polish our image. It invites us to reflect on the sincerity of our relationships and our need for recognition.
How to apply it daily
Before bonding with someone new, ask yourself: are you seeking a genuine connection or simply a new source of admiration?
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