“We can never be sure of the opinion we have of ourselves, but we can be sure of the opinion others have of us.”
What this quote means
Karr highlights the uncertainty of our self-perception, often biased by our emotions and illusions. In contrast, the opinion of others, though sometimes flawed, seems more objective because it is based on external observations. This reflection invites us to step back from our self-image and consider the gaze of others as a complementary mirror. It applies in moments of doubt, when we seek external validation to better know ourselves.
How to apply it daily
Choose a trusted person and ask them honestly how they perceive you. Compare that view with your own, without defensiveness, to enrich your self-understanding.
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