“You don't get to choose if you get hurt in this world, but you do have some say in who hurts you.”
What this quote means
Suffering is part of life, but we have the power to choose our relationships and limit the damage. Green emphasizes that we don't control everything, but we can decide who we let into our inner circle. This idea empowers us: we can surround ourselves with kind people and distance ourselves from those who hurt us. It offers a glimmer of hope in the face of adversity, reminding us that our freedom lies in our relational choices.
How to apply it daily
Evaluate your current relationships. Identify those that harm you and take steps to set boundaries or distance yourself.
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