“The only way to have a friend is to be one.”
What this quote means
This quote by Myrdal, a Nobel Peace Prize laureate, encapsulates a deep relational truth: friendship is not decreed, it is cultivated. Being a friend means offering listening, generosity, and presence before expecting anything in return. It applies to all who feel lonely or disappointed: instead of seeking friends, become a friend, and you will naturally attract them.
How to apply it daily
Today, reach out to an acquaintance: offer your help or a listening ear, without expecting immediate return.
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