“There are two sorts of constancy in love one arises from continually discovering in the loved person new subjects for love, the other arises from our making a merit of being constant.”
What this quote means
This quote distinguishes two motivations for constancy in love. The first is positive: it arises from the continuous discovery of new qualities in the beloved, which renews love. The second is more selfish: it comes from our desire to value ourselves by being constant, even if love has weakened. It invites us to reflect on the source of our fidelity.
How to apply it daily
Question your own constancy: is it nourished by continuous admiration for your partner, or by a simple need to appear loyal? Seek to rediscover what attracted you.
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