What this quote means

Dumas suggests that happiness and misery are not absolute states but relative to our experience and expectations. What makes us happy or unhappy is the comparison with other moments in our lives or with others'. This perspective can help us put our sorrows into perspective and appreciate our joys, realizing that our perception is subjective and ever-changing.

How to apply it daily

When you feel overwhelmed by an emotion, compare it to another period in your life. Write down how your perspective shifts and what that teaches you about your current state.