“The trouble is if you don't spend your life yourself, other people spend it for you.”
What this quote means
Erica Jong's quote warns against passivity. If you don't actively take the reins of your existence, others will do it for you, whether through societal expectations, family pressures, or circumstances. It underscores the importance of intentionality and personal responsibility. Every choice not made is a decision left to someone else. It is a powerful reminder to define your own priorities and live on your own terms.
How to apply it daily
Identify an area of your life where you let others decide. Make a conscious choice today to take back control, even on a small aspect.
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