What this quote means

This phrase by Gertrude Stein, written about her childhood in Oakland, expresses a feeling of uprootedness and absence. It resonates with our experience of places that have changed or have never had deep meaning for us. It evokes the loss of bearings, the fact that certain places do not match our memories or expectations. It reminds us that the sense of belonging is subjective and can be absent even in familiar places. It invites us to question our relationship to places and to seek what creates a feeling of 'home'.

How to apply it daily

Visit a place from your past that has changed. Note your emotions and accept that this place is no longer 'there' for you. Then create a ritual to anchor yourself in your present.